I Have A Confession

I’m always a bit intrigued when I meet people who think that, because of the work I do in personal and professional development, my life must be totally sorted. Zen-like. Balanced. As much as I’d like to say it is, of course it is not. I become stuck, feel envious, get bogged down in noise, […]

A Way Of Thinking

My local coffee shop is the perfect environment for relaxing and soaking in the comings and goings of the world around me. I’m a real people-watcher and can sit there for hours observing the actions of people as they go about their business. On a good day, I can do this without judgment. But on […]

Making The Right Decision

Ever wondered what makes any decision “right”? Being right or wrong is simply a judgment—they’re words on each end of a spectrum that’s different for everyone. What’s right for you may be wrong for me. And you can never expect to be right beforehand—only after. I’m not talking about moral judgments here. I’m referring to […]

Being Found Out!

I’ve lost track of the number of times when someone wants to talk to me about how the fear of being found out as a “fraud” is preventing them from moving ahead. When I hear this, I have one question: Why on earth would you live in a way that creates your fear!? You see, […]

Superman!

“So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable.” I’m not sure at what point in his life the actor Christopher Reeve made that statement. Perhaps it was while he was on the Broadway stage before his big acting triumphs […]