Does wanting that certain client, big money or new car really do you any good?
Unfortunately, fixating on specific outcomes can inadvertently cause unnecessary frustration.
Yes, get clarity on what you want. Visualize the end result. But material details create dependency on material outcomes.
In and of themselves, outcomes are actually pieces of the larger picture of your life disguised as the result. A true result is never a thing – it is a feeling, like:
- Pride
- Confidence
- Love
- Security
- Peace
Focus on the desired outcome, but do not attach to them as your be all and end all. Rather, understand what it is you want to experience in life, and focus on that.
Action – Looking at your current material outcomes, ask yourself:
What feeling will I have by possessing this thing?
Use this awareness and new perspective to sharpen your energies and attention on the experience instead of the dependency of possession.