Bob is a jerk, right?! An inconsiderate moron who doesn’t understand what it takes for you to do your job!
That’s your story and you’re sticking to it!
You see, that’s just it. Your relationship with Bob is simply that – a story.
It’s a story made up in your mind based on your experiences with Bob mixed together with memories, new dramas and future expectations.
Poor old Bob doesn’t stand a chance with you! Yet, someone loves him, thinks of him as a great guy, or respected client. And that’s THEIR story.
Just as valid as yours, only different.
You may have many Bobs in your life. And think about this – to someone else YOU are Bob!
Action – You don’t have to be buddy buddy with every Bob out there. This is simply a reminder that, because of your power to create a negative story to describe Bob, you also have the power to create a more positive one.
And that choice is always yours.